哭過了也痛過了, 就該停止思念. 做人要瀟灑一點~要懂得放下, 放不下是虐待... 心能承受的已經夠了. 現在我才發現, 以前的我有多傻...過去了, 就不值得眷戀了! 偽裝是堤防的最佳保護色. 但也是很累的.
Read this off my friend's blog and thought that it is pretty well said and relate-able. Sometimes we know that the past is the past, yet we still seem to hold on so tightly to history, and i mean especially bad memories or experiences. And all these thoughts become grudges.
But of course, reminising past memories, like good moments is a different thing.
Crying to me is never something that shows a person is weak. I guess it really means that everyone, being imperfect people, do have our weak sides and when our weak points appear, we are saddened. Yet, once we learn that everybody can get hurt and disappointed once in awhile, and yet not give in to grief, it's then we are growing up :)
I like her last sentence especially. Totally agree that putting on a front or rather, a mask, is not being strong at all, in fact, it's only a form of protecting yourself and making yourself feel more secured. Where did the courage go...
Random thoughts:
I enjoy bus rides :)
Especially long bus rides, when i am not in a rush of course.
Today i made a new friend! Making friends is such a joy really!
I love choir practices because i can really do whatever i want to do with friends who care!
I like drawing benzene rings because it challenges me.
It doesn't mean that people with the same specs as me look like me...please.
My juniors still remember the stories i came up with to encourage them!
I am humbled by friends who tell me that they can count on me.
Guys shouldn't suppress their tears just because of manly pride.
People will stop being calculative when they become cheerful givers.
My sister is someone extremely precious to me.
Being friendly is not being weird. Being arrogant is.
